There’s just something peaceful about being near a body of water!
This has been weighing heavily on my heart.
My goal in writing this, is not to diminish any one side’s voice.
Rather, to bring to the table that there is a time and a season for everything.
I feel like I’m pretty middle of the road- and even so, I know I’m still at fault, at times.
I’ve spent the better part of the past year trying my best to listen, and I still felt like there were times my voice wasn’t heard.
On one end, I’m tired of being a punching bag, on other, I need to stop throwing the punches, on the other, it’s time I make amends, and use my voice to help build bridges.
The point of this is, cycles happen- and they don’t break until there is change.
And, there needs to be more people standing up in the gap, building bridges to make change.
This is not to say that this is necessarily “your time” for any specific area- rather, whatever you are ready for, and on your time table- I’ll hope that you’ll remember and be open to what changes you are personally ready to take.
Politics aside, this is not to say don’t stand up for what you believe in.
Rather, stand up for what you believe in and be loving to your neighbor. Hear when you have wronged others, and when you’re ready- because we are all on different time tables- break the cycle.
We all have a responsibility to the parts we play in our circles, in our society, and in the world.
In different aspects of our lives, we may be in different parts of the cycle. We may be breaking cycles in one area, and still needing a lot of work in another. And in some- man, do we really need to just stop talking, and start listening and doing!
If I’m way off base, or you feel like any part of this was hurtful- please feel free to open up to conversation with me!
My goal is to keep a space that allows for honest, open communication that works towards coming together.
I’ve been contemplating lately on change and growth, and I have to keep reminding myself. . . So, naturally, I felt led to share.
Growth in your life, no matter the area, requires a few things:
* Getting out of your own way
* Overcoming obstacles
* Setting goals, yet being flexible on the time line- it’s also important to remember that it’s ok to set a goal down, and pick it back up later!
* Being honest with yourself
Growth takes change, and if you’re not ready to change- you’re not ready to grow.
So, if you’re feeling “stuck” in a certain area of your life- you might ask yourself a question!
Am I ok with staying where I’m at?! Or, do I want to do the work to change what is no longer benefiting me?!
For me, I know it’s time to start doing the work on some things I’ve been avoiding. Know that if you’re there, too- you’ve got this. It’ll be hard, but it’ll be worth it!
How do you know you love something?! When you buy/have more than one! I just found four of these guys in my purse, but apparently two are almost empty.
We kind of naturally stopped using essential oils, back when my husband and I started discipleship school. Then we were transitioning from moving from our house to traveling.
I’ve recently been making more of a conscious effort to using more natural products, again- and apparently Thieves is one I’ve been grabbing a lot!
What’s even the point?
I find myself thinking this on a daily basis.
I’ve poured myself- given all that I can: mentally, physically, emotionally…I’m sure the list goes on..into a lot of aspects of my life over the years.
And, it currently feels like some of it was for nothing.
Don’t get me wrong- there have been a lot of positives, and a lot of growth.
And I probably need to do a journal to process through things…but I still can’t get the thought out of my head: What’s the point?
What was the point of x,y,z circumstance if x,y,z door was closed, or x, y, z growth didn’t happen. You get the picture.
Honestly, the only answer I have right now is that there is a season for everything. I may never know the reason why I’m feeling this way currently. Or maybe, I’m feeling this way and I just need to get out of my own head.
I also know that, if I’m feeling this way- there is probably somebody else out there feeling this way too.
I’ve always been a big believer in sharing what I have gone through, or am currently going through so others know they aren’t alone.
I know that things may seem hopeless or frustrating. But know, that you.are.not.alone.
In case this is just an: I need to get out of my own head moment. . . Here’s what I plan to do-
*Talk about it- sometimes just talking through it helps me to process in a different way. And getting it off my chest helps me to let it go.
* Write to share (here)
*Pray about it and seek God
Feel free to join me! Or ask a friend, therapist/counselor/ professional or google and find your own ways to work through it!!
It’s all about creating your toolbox of resources!